Need to calm your crying baby? Give these brilliantly simple techniques for calming and reassuring a crying little one a go.
First things first
Before trying our tips, run through this checklist to make sure there isn’t a more obvious reason why your baby’s upset:
Is she hungry?
Does she need changing?
Is she too hot or too cold?
Does she want a cuddle?
Does she need winding?
Is she unwell?
If none of these is the problem, then it’s time to try these ideas.
1. Snug and swaddled
Many babies up to a month old feel most secure when wrapped closely, or “swaddled”, in light material. Something like a soft flannelette cot sheet is ideal as it’s not too heavy but is still snug. Keep her head uncovered and make sure she doesn’t get too hot.
2. Sucking to soothe
It’s thought that sucking on your breast or a bottle releases soothing chemicals in your baby’s brain, so try giving her your clean finger or a dummy.
3. Rock her to sleep
Gentle motion can have a fantastically calming effect on babies. Hold your baby close to you and sway from side to side. Or put her in the pram and gently rock it.
4. The car cure
A lot of tired parents find it less physically demanding to take their baby for a drive than to stand and rock, particularly as many newborns seem to sense when mum or dad sits down and cry until they’re standing again! The motion of the car may just do the trick instead.
5. Baby massage
Gentle massage on her back, tummy, arms and legs is thought to aid digestion as well as induce sleep. It’s best to go to a baby massage class to learn how to do this properly. It’s also a nice way to bond with your baby now and throughout her first years.
6. Food check
If you’re breastfeeding, substances in your food and drink, especially caffeine, may cause restlessness in your baby. If you think this might be the case, keep a food and drink diary.
7. Calming comforter
Some babies just like holding something familiar or an item that smells of you, so give her a muslin, a soft toy or a piece of your clothing to hold for comfort.
8. Background music
Gentle music or sounds that remind your baby of being in the womb can be a great pacifier, especially if she’s overstimulated. See the latest musical mobiles and soothing toys available at Tesco Direct.
9. Bathe the blues away
Some newborns take to water straightaway, so a calming bath in a quiet environment with no bright lights is a favourite soother.
10. Shut out the world
Check there isn’t something in the room that’s keeping her awake. Simply holding her against you while sitting in a dark, quiet room can ease her cries, and the sound of your calm breathing should send her off (until her next feed, that is!).
Gentle music or sounds that remind your baby of being in the womb can be a great pacifier.